What Men No About Women

What Men No About Women is an engaging and pragmatic guide designed to help men evaluate whether the women in their lives represent a green flag or a red flag. Drawing on more than 65 years of marriage and lived experience, Selley outlines ten essential traits—plus one critical bonus trait, emotional stability—that serve as key indicators of a healthy, lasting relationship.

From kindness to independence, these characteristics offer men a clearer lens through which to determine whether a woman is choosing them from genuine alignment or from a desire to be rescued. The book has the potential to steer men away from costly emotional missteps and toward meaningful connection with someone who truly has their best interests at heart.

Selley also introduces concepts such as the 95/5 Rule and the Emotional Richter Scale, practical frameworks men can add to their relationship toolkit. Witty, insightful, and dynamic, this book is ideal for men seeking greater clarity and confidence in their romantic lives.